Comments on: Q&A: Climbing out of the hole http://corcodilos.com/blog/997/qa-climbing-out-of-the-hole The insider's edge on job search & hiring™ | Copyright © 2011 North Bridge Group, Inc. All rights reserved. Mon, 21 May 2012 16:40:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: CW http://corcodilos.com/blog/997/qa-climbing-out-of-the-hole/comment-page-1#comment-33975 CW Thu, 08 Apr 2010 05:33:34 +0000 http://corcodilos.com/blog/?p=997#comment-33975 Thanks for your prompt response. I will be trolling my AA meetings for HR professionals and recruiters who understand the stigmas and honest but discreet ways to present gaps in employment and unique soft skills developed in a robust effort at recovery from addiction. If you could please remove my name from the posts I would appreciate it (in order to avoid recruiter/employer searches on my name). Thanks for your prompt response. I will be trolling my AA meetings for HR professionals and recruiters who understand the stigmas and honest but discreet ways to present gaps in employment and unique soft skills developed in a robust effort at recovery from addiction.

If you could please remove my name from the posts I would appreciate it (in order to avoid recruiter/employer searches on my name).

]]> By: Nick Corcodilos http://corcodilos.com/blog/997/qa-climbing-out-of-the-hole/comment-page-1#comment-32968 Nick Corcodilos Wed, 31 Mar 2010 13:51:55 +0000 http://corcodilos.com/blog/?p=997#comment-32968 @CW: Good for you for making a recovery. I don't know any headhunters who provide the sort of counseling you're referring to. You might find a career counselor who specializes in substance abuse. But if you do that, I think you'd want to make sure the person is both experienced and credentialed. I'd think you want a psychological counselor who specializes in career work. Be careful; there are a lot of quacks out there, and too many "counselors" who want to help but don't really know how. I'd start by contacting a hospital you trust. Ask its own counseling office who they recommend for something like this. I wish you the best. @CW: Good for you for making a recovery. I don’t know any headhunters who provide the sort of counseling you’re referring to. You might find a career counselor who specializes in substance abuse. But if you do that, I think you’d want to make sure the person is both experienced and credentialed. I’d think you want a psychological counselor who specializes in career work. Be careful; there are a lot of quacks out there, and too many “counselors” who want to help but don’t really know how. I’d start by contacting a hospital you trust. Ask its own counseling office who they recommend for something like this. I wish you the best.

]]> By: CW http://corcodilos.com/blog/997/qa-climbing-out-of-the-hole/comment-page-1#comment-32924 CW Wed, 31 Mar 2010 04:30:22 +0000 http://corcodilos.com/blog/?p=997#comment-32924 This scenario is as good as any to pose this question related to my situation: I have used headhunters for 20 years in business, have a fave who has placed me twice and placed my last boss. I lost my job due to underperformance and ended up in jail for 4 months and inpatient alcohol rehab for 7 months. I am now a different person and excited to translate new soft skills to a resumption of my career. I cannot find any resources related specifically to recruiters offering counseling or understanding 1st or 2nd hand issues related to addiction recovery. I have not re-engaged my longtime recruitment partner as I want to explore recovery issues with an objective new recruiter. Any ideas? This scenario is as good as any to pose this question related to my situation: I have used headhunters for 20 years in business, have a fave who has placed me twice and placed my last boss. I lost my job due to underperformance and ended up in jail for 4 months and inpatient alcohol rehab for 7 months. I am now a different person and excited to translate new soft skills to a resumption of my career. I cannot find any resources related specifically to recruiters offering counseling or understanding 1st or 2nd hand issues related to addiction recovery. I have not re-engaged my longtime recruitment partner as I want to explore recovery issues with an objective new recruiter. Any ideas?

]]> By: Bruce Sher http://corcodilos.com/blog/997/qa-climbing-out-of-the-hole/comment-page-1#comment-19290 Bruce Sher Tue, 20 Oct 2009 00:59:15 +0000 http://corcodilos.com/blog/?p=997#comment-19290 Can the gentleman looking for general labor: Put an ad in the yellow pages? Become bonded through an insurance agency? (It may vary state to state) (-I advise to check on this.) Well established business's with trucks&lettering do the same thing. Can the gentleman looking for general labor:
Put an ad in the yellow pages?
Become bonded through an insurance agency?
(It may vary state to state)
(-I advise to check on this.)
Well established business’s with trucks&lettering do the same thing.

]]> By: Vivian http://corcodilos.com/blog/997/qa-climbing-out-of-the-hole/comment-page-1#comment-19276 Vivian Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:35:30 +0000 http://corcodilos.com/blog/?p=997#comment-19276 I applaud the parents for their concern and their inquiry on behalf of their son. Not being in their situation, I can't tell whether "tough love" is required, so I leave that judgement to them. There may be help from a job perspective from local agencies and charities. We have several where I live that focus on matching skills to day jobs for people with disadvantages like criminal records. However, these are pretty heavily used in this economy, and the son may, sadly, be thrown in with people who will do nothing to improve his own self-image. So even if he takes day jobs, he should also find a volunteer position that he can do well in. Not all volunteer jobs will be open to him because of his record, but surely he can clean a beach, feed rescued wildlife, or maintain a hiking trail. Having a regular schedule and regular contact with other volunteers will help restore his sense of responsibility. He may find that he will have the opportunity to teach others to do the volunteer work, another great boost to self-image. So consider volunteer work as a bridge to responsibility, too. I do agree with Nick: public speaking does wonders for so many aspects of my life. When I have a "gig" coming up, I'm practicing, planning my clothes and grooming, and most important, imagining myself in charge of the room. And, of course, it's a commitment that the son has to want to make, to. If he chooses to commit to a speaking role, hopefully he'll remember the feeling of success and enjoy it again. I applaud the parents for their concern and their inquiry on behalf of their son. Not being in their situation, I can’t tell whether “tough love” is required, so I leave that judgement to them.

There may be help from a job perspective from local agencies and charities. We have several where I live that focus on matching skills to day jobs for people with disadvantages like criminal records. However, these are pretty heavily used in this economy, and the son may, sadly, be thrown in with people who will do nothing to improve his own self-image.

So even if he takes day jobs, he should also find a volunteer position that he can do well in. Not all volunteer jobs will be open to him because of his record, but surely he can clean a beach, feed rescued wildlife, or maintain a hiking trail. Having a regular schedule and regular contact with other volunteers will help restore his sense of responsibility. He may find that he will have the opportunity to teach others to do the volunteer work, another great boost to self-image. So consider volunteer work as a bridge to responsibility, too.

I do agree with Nick: public speaking does wonders for so many aspects of my life. When I have a “gig” coming up, I’m practicing, planning my clothes and grooming, and most important, imagining myself in charge of the room. And, of course, it’s a commitment that the son has to want to make, to. If he chooses to commit to a speaking role, hopefully he’ll remember the feeling of success and enjoy it again.

]]> By: PeteK http://corcodilos.com/blog/997/qa-climbing-out-of-the-hole/comment-page-1#comment-19234 PeteK Mon, 19 Oct 2009 01:18:48 +0000 http://corcodilos.com/blog/?p=997#comment-19234 He needs Cognitive Behavioral Therapy He needs Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

]]> By: S Kendall http://corcodilos.com/blog/997/qa-climbing-out-of-the-hole/comment-page-1#comment-19232 S Kendall Mon, 19 Oct 2009 00:45:41 +0000 http://corcodilos.com/blog/?p=997#comment-19232 Nick is too polite to say it but I will: 1. Stop making excuses for a full grown man 2. Shove him out of the nest 3. Stay away until he shows he can earn your respect by being a responsible member of society Nick is too polite to say it but I will:

1. Stop making excuses for a full grown man
2. Shove him out of the nest
3. Stay away until he shows he can earn your respect by being a responsible member of society

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